In this episode, we sit down with Obi and Peju for a refreshingly real conversation about what actually holds a marriage together when the “new relationship glow” fades. From the very start, they share how their relationship was built on friendship first, the kind of foundation that keeps you connected through kids, careers, changing seasons, and everything life throws at you.
They unpack the idea of rediscovering each other over time (because you don’t stay the same person you were when you first fell in love), and why rediscovering yourself is just as important if you want to love someone well. The chat gets practical as they talk about conflict styles, how differences don’t have to become deal-breakers, and what it looks like to work through tension without losing the relationship.
And just when you think it can’t get deeper, they share one of their most powerful tools: creating a marriage mission statement / “marriage manifesto” — a North Star that helps them stay intentional about what matters most. It’s honest, funny in places, and full of takeaways for anyone dating, engaged, newly married, or trying to strengthen what they’ve already built.
Obi & Peju (The Jedi & Spark Show)
Website: https://thejediandthespark.net/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_jedi_and_the_spark/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheJediTheSpark/videos
Email: thejediandthespark@gmail.com
Kathryn Wilson
Website: www.LoveCelebrants.co.uk
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovecelebrants/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovecelebrantsUK
Email: Kathryn.wilson@humanistceremonies.org.uk
Welcome to Wedding Mayhem the podcast that takes you behind the scenes of the wedding industry. Also available on YouTube as a full studio broadcast.
Hosted by Sharon Underwood, bridal boutique owner with over 25 years in the industry, this is where real weddings are talked about honestly not just the polished version you see online.
From emotional moments to things that don’t quite go to plan, Sharon shares the truth about weddings with humour, experience, and a no-nonsense approach.
Each week, a different wedding supplier joins the show to share their top tips, expert advice, and what couples really need to know when booking for their wedding.
Each episode features candid conversations with wedding professionals from photographers and stylists to celebrants and content creators giving you insider knowledge and the things couples are rarely told.
Because let’s be honest… weddings aren’t always perfect and that’s where the magic (and the mayhem) happens.
Whether you’re planning your wedding, working in the industry, or just love a good behind-the-scenes story, Wedding Mayhem is here to help you feel informed, confident, and a little less overwhelmed.
🎧 New episodes every Thursday at 4pm
📍 Real stories, expert advice & behind-the-scenes truths
Podcast Contact us: https://www.weddingmayhem.co.uk
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/weddingmayhempodcast
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