What happens when a carefully planned birth center delivery is suddenly rerouted by preeclampsia, a hospital admission, and a 34-week induction? We sit down with Andrea and Joakim to tell the full story of Magnus’s early arrival: the shock of a one-day pivot, the seven-week NICU marathon, and the quiet work of rebuilding trust in themselves as new parents.
We walk through the real logistics and the raw feelings. Twice-daily drives to the hospital. Care times every three hours. Learning the language of oxygen saturation, NG tubes, and feed volumes. Andrea shares the steep curve of breastfeeding a preterm baby—latching practice, non-nutritive sucks, and negotiating how much to supplement when transfer is hard to measure. Joakim opens up about the partner perspective, where limited hands-on time and a sleepy newborn can delay bonding and leave you wondering if you’re connecting at all. Together we unpack the “island” step-down unit, the optimism of almost-going-home, and the frustration of rotating teams and shifting milestones that made discharge feel like a moving target.
This conversation is equal parts practical and heart-forward. You’ll hear how they advocated for small choices within big hospital protocols, why one ointment change mattered, and how both gratitude and grief can be true at the same time. We talk about bringing Magnus home—no beeping monitors, just breath sounds in the dark—and how anxiety gave way to rhythm, confidence, and a breastfeeding breakthrough. If you’re a NICU parent, preparing for birth, or supporting someone through a preterm journey, you’ll find empathy, clear takeaways, and language to ask better questions.
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Show Credits
Host: Angie Rosier
Music: Michael Hicks
Photographer: Toni Walker
Episode Artwork: Nick Greenwood
Producer: Gillian Rosier Frampton
Voiceover: Ryan Parker
