What do we do when a marriage ends—or when someone we love is devastated by divorce? In this compassionate message, Pastor Chris speaks honestly about the pain of broken relationships and how the church can respond with grace. Drawing from Scripture and personal stories, this episode helps us learn to care for the wounded and walk with those who feel abandoned.
Key Points:
- Offer Real Help and Hope – Galatians 6:2; Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
Be present. Listen. Show up. When someone’s life falls apart, we can be the hands and feet of Jesus. - Let Them Grieve and Accept Reality – 2 Samuel 12:22–23
Like David, people need space to grieve before they can move forward. Let them process pain without rushing a fix. - Encourage Them to Cry Out to God – Psalm 142:1–3; Psalm 34:18
True healing begins when we pour our hearts out to the Lord, even when everything feels broken.
Personal Stories from Pastor Chris:
- Shared the emotional impact of his own family’s experience with divorce
- Told William’s story of being shunned by his church after his wife’s betrayal
- Highlighted how the church can often unknowingly wound instead of heal
- Spoke about his father-in-law’s sudden death and the lessons of being present in grief
Notable Quotes:
- “God doesn’t throw people away. The church shouldn’t either.”
- “Sometimes the most powerful ministry is just being there and listening.”
- “Grace begins when we stop trying to fix and start walking alongside.”
Actionable Takeaways:
- Heart-level reflection: Who around me is hurting from divorce, and how can I show them God’s love?
- Daily-life application: Reach out this week to someone walking through loss—invite them for coffee or simply listen.
- Spiritual step or challenge: Pray for those facing relational loss, and ask God to use you as a vessel of comfort.
- Practical next step: Join a care team or small group focused on supporting the brokenhearted in your church.
Scripture References:
- Malachi 2:16 – “God hates divorce” because of its painful consequences
- Psalm 34:18 – The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
- Isaiah 61:1 – He sent me to bind up the brokenhearted
- John 4 – Jesus ministers to the Samaritan woman
- 2 Samuel 12 – David grieves and accepts the loss of his child
- Psalm 142 – A cry of desperation that finds hope
- 2 Corinthians 12:9 – God’s power is made perfect in weakness
Keywords: divorce, broken marriage, grief, hope, healing, church care, compassion, Christian response, faith through trials, forgiveness
Challenge:
Be the person who shows up. Don’t let the broken-hearted sit alone in silence. Step into their pain and be a witness to God’s healing grace.
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The WELL Faith Podcast shares practical, Bible-based messages from Pastor Chris Teien to help you worship, encourage, learn, and love in everyday life. A new message is released every Sunday. Episodes marked with an asterisk (*) are replay episodes from previous years. Find resources at ChrisTeien.com and Rockwell.Church in Virginia, MN, and follow and review the podcast on your favorite listening platform.
