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In Part 2 of our series on dealing with passive-aggressive behavior, we'll uncover the subtle signs that can help you identify these challenging dynamics. We'll also share SIX powerful strategies to help you stay composed, grounded, and foster accountability, leading to more constructive and effective interactions.
π Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction
01:53 - Why Passive-Aggressive Jujitsu?
04:50 - Quick review of passive-aggressive behaviors
06:14 - Quick review passive-aggressive dynamic
07:25 - P-A to Expressive-Aggressive Spectrum
08:08 - Recognizing the signs of P-A
15:10 - Strategies for responding to P-A
15:30 - 1) Stay calm, composed, and stop reacting
17:48 - 2) Re-establish/Establish Boundaries
19:00 - 3) Cultivate an Amused Attitude
20:35 - 4) Focus on Facts
21:49 - 5) Use Advocacy with Inquiry*
29:43 - 6) Strategic Inquiry or βNailing jello to the wallβ
31:46 - 7) Provide reassurance that honesty is safe
33:40 - Summary
Β π Watch us on YouTube:Β
Challenging People: Passive-Aggressive Behavior https://youtu.be/8GdoOdKX3ZE
DEALING WITH PROJECTIONS
Dodging Monkey Poo and Avoiding Chum https://youtu.be/7zzFbbeuyjs
ADVOCACY WITH INQUIRY
So you want to stop avoiding conflict: Now What?https://youtu.be/oPBId3fVLZo
**Handouts: Handout: https://www.christinacarophd.com/s-projects-basic
π Explore More
Action Leadership Group: Advocacy with Inquiry Overview https://actionleadershipgroup.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/ALG-Advocacy-Inquiry.pdf
Leadership Sapiens: Advocacy with Inquiry Overview
https://www.leadingsapiens.com/advocacy-and-inquiry/
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