Ever notice how a viral post can jump from your screen to your doorstep? We take you inside a series of jaw-dropping cases to map the blurry boundary between calling someone out and putting them in danger. From the Sniper Wolf vs Jack Films feud that moved from YouTube to a front porch, to a therapist’s flippant “trauma dump” TikTok that shattered trust, to a guy livestreaming smug politics in a company shirt and then blaming “the internet” for his firing—this episode pulls apart what counts as doxing, what counts as accountability, and why intent matters less than foreseeable harm.
As clinicians and creators, we unpack why geolocation breadcrumbs are scarier than you think, how parasocial fandoms escalate conflict, and what responsible exposure looks like when someone’s conduct is truly harmful. We also tackle the “fuck around and win” economy—where racist or fascist statements turn into lucrative crowdfunding—and offer clear tactics to avoid accidentally boosting bad actors. You’ll hear practical guidance: how to keep your home private, when to use HR, licensing boards, or law enforcement instead of your feed, and how to speak up without handing a mob a target.
The goal isn’t silence; it’s smarter guardrails. We argue for firm accountability that names behavior and cites sources, without publishing addresses or phone numbers that enable harassment. If you’ve ever wondered where your line is between necessary exposure and reckless doxing, this conversation gives you a workable test and a toolkit you can use today.
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