In this heartfelt episode, Oliver explores the journey from seeking instant gratification to discovering the power of authentic human connection. Through personal stories and insights, we dive into the importance of vulnerability, respecting boundaries, and creating safe spaces for deeper intimacy. Learn how to move beyond superficial interactions and embrace meaningful relationships.
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction: King Oliver opens up about his journey from chasing physical intimacy to seeking deeper connections.
01:00 - The Emptiness of Casual Encounters: Discussion on how sex without connection left feelings of emptiness.
02:14 - Podcast Gratitude: King thanks listeners for over a million downloads and encourages ratings and reviews.
03:01 - Dating Apps and Numbers Game: Reflections on the addictive nature of dating apps and superficial swiping.
04:09 - Shift to Conscious Connection: King shares how Conscious Connecting Workshops transformed his approach to relationships.
06:40 - The Art of Deep Connection: Exploring why modern society struggles with authentic, soul-level connection.
10:05 - Relearning Connection: How technology and conditioning hinder genuine human interactions.
13:05 - Lessons from Every Interaction: The value of connecting with people beyond physical attraction.
36:16 - The Power of Saying No: Why setting boundaries and saying 'no' builds trust and authenticity.
43:56 - Safety and Openness: How respecting boundaries creates safety, fostering deeper connections.
49:56 - Final Thoughts and Promotion: King promotes Divinely Untamed Temple Nights and encourages listeners to engage with the podcast.
Guest Bio:
Jess, known as The Gaiagrapher, is a Priestess in training and an advocate for the unapologetic exploration of sensuality. Raised in a strict religious environment and shamed for her sexuality from a young age, she knows firsthand the impact of repression and the long road to self-liberation. Seeking sexual freedom, she explored the world—from working as a hostess in Japan’s Kyabakura clubs to stepping into the underground sex parties of Soho London. With 18 years of experiential practice in BDSM, tantra, and temple spaces, she now curates transformative spaces where others can reclaim their sensual power, soften
About the Podcast
This is a raw, unedited podcast exploring healing, self-awareness, emotional health, trauma recovery, consciousness, and personal growth. Conversations are unscripted and led by the moment, focusing on what it actually takes to live authentically in the modern world.
Hosted by Oliver — who healed Tourette’s, ADHD, and OCD at 21 through lifestyle changes, meditation, and nervous system regulation — the podcast explores real-world healing beyond theory, labels, or surface-level spirituality.
Each episode dives into topics such as childhood trauma, emotional triggers, inner child healing, mindfulness, mental health, identity, nervous system healing, breaking generational patterns, and building emotional resilience through honest conversations, lived experience, and practical insight.
This podcast is for anyone seeking clarity, emotional freedom, and deeper self-understanding — without bypassing reality or pretending healing is simple.
