Most people think abuse means being hit. But what if some of the most damaging abuse leaves no visible bruises at all?
In this deep-dive episode, licensed trauma therapist and domestic abuse expert Tabitha Westbrook breaks down what coercive control REALLY is and why terms like "domestic violence" or "narcissistic abuse" don't even come close to describing it.
In this episode you'll learn:
• Why coercive control is about taking someone's personhood, not just hurting their body
• The subtle tactics coercive controllers use
• Why ALL coercive control is physical abuse (yes, really)
• How to recognize if YOU are in a coercively controlling relationship
• What to do if you think YOU might be the coercive controller and that change IS possible
Whether it's a marriage, a friendship, or even church, coercive control shows up in more places than we realize. This episode will give you language, clarity, and a path forward.
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This book is for every Christian woman who has been harmed sexually, whether that happened in childhood, adulthood, or even within your coercive controlling marriage, and you're longing to feel safe in your body again. We talk about the hard stuff, shame, desire, faith, and even questions like, is this sin or is this trauma?
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