Ever wondered why some conversations spiral while others heal? We sit down with Barrett Wilson, owner of Ascending Self, to unpack how practical therapy tools and real empathy can transform daily life—whether you’re navigating grief, stuck in recurring arguments, or just craving more ease in your relationships.
Barrett traces his path from a spark in a high school psychology class to building outdoor programs for foster youth, hiking the Appalachian Trail, and working in wilderness therapy. That journey shaped a grounded, skills-forward approach that blends insight with action. When families saw change with their teens, parents invited Barrett to help repair marriages and rebuild trust, laying the foundation for his private practice in East Tennessee and Western North Carolina. Along the way, he dispels the myth that therapy is only for crisis, highlighting how support for communication, emotional regulation, and values alignment can prevent small issues from becoming big ruptures.
We also explore how personal loss informed Barrett’s craft. After his father’s death in 2020, he became a client himself, deepening his understanding of grief and the courage it takes to ask for help. He shares accessible tools—reflective listening, repair scripts, pacing tough talks, and reframing harsh self-talk—that make relationships safer and more resilient. Expect insights you can try the same day: how to slow a heated exchange, how to validate without surrendering your needs, and how to create rituals that keep connection strong. If you’re curious about real-world therapy that fits busy lives and complex families, this conversation offers both hope and a map.
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