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When Jeaneen Tang became a mother, she didn’t expect an emergency C-section, postpartum challenges, or parenting mostly solo. But nothing could have prepared her for what came next.
At just 13 months old, her son Che suffered a traumatic brain injury after a short fall—an accident that not only changed his life but also launched Jeaneen into a devastating legal battle.
In this emotional and deeply moving episode, Jeaneen shares her experience navigating hospital trauma, being falsely accused, and fighting to stay connected with her son while enduring a 20-month custody battle.
Through resilience, therapy, and an unshakeable love, Jeaneen and Che are writing their own story of recovery and strength.
Episode Takeaways
- Birth trauma can be both physical and emotional — Jeaneen’s emergency C-section and lack of support in the hospital set the tone for a difficult postpartum experience.
- Unexpected medical events can happen in an instant — A short fall led to a life-threatening brain injury for her son, showing how quickly everything can change.
- Mothers are often judged unfairly in times of crisis — Jeaneen was labeled a "cold-hearted mother” while in shock, triggering a 20-month legal battle.
- Systemic flaws can compound trauma — Instead of receiving support, Jeaneen faced suspicion, legal separation from her child, and emotional isolation.
- Resilience is built in the darkest moments — Despite unimaginable challenges, Jeaneen remained fiercely committed to her son’s recovery and well-being.
- A strong bond can survive even forced separation — Through daily routines and consistency, Jeaneen maintained emotional closeness with her son.
- Therapy and community support matter — Jeaneen credits counseling and a few key allies with helping her survive and rebuild.
- Children with disabilities deserve full inclusion — Jeaneen fought to ensure her son received therapies, inclusive education, and social opportunities.
- Healing requires action — “When you’re in depression, action helps,” Jeaneen says—she poured her energy into advocating for her son.
- Don’t be afraid to ask for help — Support from friends, professionals, and chosen family was vital to their survival.
Soundbites
- "Not only was my child fighting for his life, but I was fighting to be his mother."
- "They called me a cold-hearted mother because I asked for a moment to breathe."
- "If I can get through that, I can get through anything."
- "Focus on your child. If they get better, you get better."
- "Our bond never broke. Even when the system tried to separate us, he still reached for my skin tag—that little piece of me he’s always known."
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