For men of faith, like myself, who've struggled with porn for years and years, it can be easy to look at our behavior and say, "I've got a porn problem." However, the truth is, you don't. You don't have a problem with porn. The truth is, you've found a solution in porn. A solution to what? To the problems that underly porn-use: isolation, passivity and pain. The solutions to these problems are found in connection, intentionality and healing. As we pursue these through new habits, new mindsets and courage, we can become the men we've always wanted to be: thriving, living fully alive without porn.
Johann Hari, TED Talk, "Everything you think you know about addiction is wrong"
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