What happens when the life that looks successful on paper no longer feels true inside?
In this episode, best-selling author and real estate entrepreneur Betsy Pepine shares the deeply personal journey that led her to write Breaking Boxes: Dismantling the Metaphorical Boxes That Bind Us. From family-of-origin expectations and gender norms to professional identities and marital labels, Betsy reflects on the invisible structures that shape our choices—and what it takes to step beyond them.
We explore how speaking for her book differs from speaking for a company, why writing was both challenging and healing, and how choosing a more authentic path transformed not only her career—but her voice. This conversation is a reminder that some boxes protect us for a time… and some are meant to be taken apart.
Takeaways
1. Success can quietly coexist with deep dissatisfaction.
2. Some boxes protect us for a season, then begin to confine us.
3. Speaking for a company requires a different voice than speaking for yourself.
4. Vulnerability often eases once the truth is already out in the world.
5. Family-of-origin expectations can shape decades of career and identity choices.
6. Labels and forms subtly influence how others see us—and how we see ourselves.
7. Writing can be both a creative craft and a deeply therapeutic process.
8. Authentic speaking allows the full range of head, heart, and humanity to show up.
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