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Ever had a customer gush about how much they love your store, only to catch them raving about a competitor?

I have. And at first, I took it personally.

I thought their loyalty meant exclusivity—that they would only shop with me. But in retail, customer relationships don’t work that way. They’re polyamorous.

Loyalty Doesn’t Mean Exclusivity

Customers don’t just shop at one store, no matter how much they love your brand. Research backs this up—88% of consumers say they’re more loyal to brands that consistently provide value (Accenture). But that doesn’t mean they only shop with those brands.

Instead of fighting for monogamy, retailers should focus on staying top of mind, delivering great experiences, and making it easy for customers to return.

How to Keep Customers Coming Back

1. Stay Consistently Excellent – Shoppers will drift if they have a bad experience. Make sure your customer service, product quality, and shopping experience stay top-notch.
2. Keep in Touch – Email, SMS, social media—use them to stay on your customers’ radar. The more they see your brand, the more likely they are to choose you when they’re ready to buy.
3. Offer Perks for Repeat Business – Whether it’s a loyalty program, VIP perks, or just a simple “thank you” discount, rewarding customers for coming back helps reinforce the habit.
4. Engage Beyond the Sale – Share valuable content, tips, and insights to keep your brand relevant in their daily lives—not just when they’re ready to shop.
5. Make Shopping With You Effortless – A clunky checkout, poor website navigation, or slow response times can push customers to a competitor. Make every interaction smooth and simple.

The Reality of Customer Loyalty

Your customers will shop elsewhere. That doesn’t mean they’ve abandoned you—it just means they’re human. Your job isn’t to force exclusivity; it’s to create an experience so good that they always come back.

So, instead of worrying about where else they shop, focus on being a business they can’t stay away from.

Are your customers monogamous, or do they “cheat” on you with other retailers? More importantly—how do you keep them coming back?

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