In this conversation, I—Sherman Bradley—sit down with my friend Robert Bouwens—a husband, father, world-traveler, and fellow pilgrim in the canyon of mid-life—to trace the winding road that has carried him from a rules-based faith into a living, breathing relationship with the Father.
Robert’s story is raw and refreshingly honest. Raised in a devout Christian home, he learned early how to perform for God and people—but the ache of pride, insecurity, and restless striving followed him into business, family, and ministry. What he eventually discovered through our Canyon Pathways community—and through the familiar yet ever-surprising parable of the prodigal son—is that grace waits at the very place where our self-reliance runs out.
Together we explore the moments that cracked Robert’s armor: the pressure to control outcomes, the hidden exhaustion of “getting it right,” a father-wound he never knew he carried, and the shocking generosity of a God who comes running toward repentant sons. You’ll hear how learning the practice of rest (a foreign language to Robert at first!) became a doorway to freedom, and why authenticity and community are essential companions on this road.
My hope is that Robert’s journey will give you permission to release your own white-knuckle grip, receive the embrace of the Father, and discover that true leadership flows from living as beloved sons. Grab a quiet moment—maybe a cup of coffee—and join us at the table.
Key Takeaways
About Canyon Pathways: https://www.canyonpathways.org/about
Learn about our retreats: https://www.canyonpathways.org/retreats
The Heart of Man Film: http://heartofmanmovie.com
The Canyon Pathways Spotify playlist: https://canyonpathwayspodcast.com/cpspotify
