In this episode of the Canyon Pathways Podcast, I invite you into a vulnerable, honest reflection on control—especially for those of us navigating midlife leadership and all its uncertainties.
If you’re anything like me, you know the tension: on one hand, we crave a sense of security; on the other, we realize just how elusive real control can be. When we’re caught in the middle of life’s responsibilities—family, work, community—it’s easy to slip into micromanaging or over-functioning, hoping that more control will ease our fears. Yet we often end up feeling more anxious, disconnected, and worn out.
In this conversation, I open up about how I’ve discovered a different path—one that doesn’t rely on tightening my grip, but on recognizing that trying to “roll against” everything around me only adds to my exhaustion. By leaning into our identity as God’s beloved children, we can trade our control strategies for genuine rest, deeper relationships, and a renewed sense of purpose. I hope you’ll sense the relief and freedom that come when we shift from fear to trust, from being “in control” to being fully present and alive.
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