This week on The Music of Life, I’m coming to you a little under the weather—but very fired up about something that’s been on my heart: hookup culture, dating apps like Tinder and Bumble, and what’s really happening to love and relationships today. I’m sharing my honest thoughts about modern dating, cheating, emotional immaturity, and why so many people feel disconnected—even when they’re technically “together.”
I talk about inner healing, the Law of Attraction, generational trauma, and why I believe toxic relationships form when unhealed people align with other unhealed people. If you’ve ever wondered why dating feels so hard, why meaningful love feels rare, or whether real, soul-aligned love is still possible—this episode is for you. Press play and let’s have an honest conversation about love, self-worth, and what it truly takes to build something beautiful.
Episode Highlights:
[0:02] - Opening thoughts and why I wanted to talk about hookup culture—even while feeling under the weather.
[0:55] - Dating apps, cheating, and the question: what are people really looking for?
[1:30] - How porn, unhealed trauma, and the Law of Attraction shape modern relationship dynamics.
[3:01] - Why I believe inner healing is the key to attracting a healthy, evolved partner.
[4:15] - Stop asking “why” and start asking “what” when reflecting on your wounds.
[5:30] - Why fighting for yourself and your self-worth changes everything in love.
[6:00] - Looking back at our parents’ and grandparents’ long marriages—what did they understand about commitment?
[7:11] - My personal truth: how the unhealed version of me aligned with the unhealed version of my ex.
[8:45] - Why ending a toxic relationship can be one of the most painful—and transformative—experiences.
[9:30] - What real love looks like when two whole, healed people come together.
[10:27] - Breaking generational trauma and why the cycle of pain stops with me.
[11:26] - How to connect with me and share your thoughts on this conversation.
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