This episode examines how white entitlement often hides inside everyday expectations that feel neutral, polite, or “just the way things work.” Karen and Jonelle unpack a real-world incident at a shared resort pool where unwritten rules were enforced selectively, revealing how power shifts based on who is speaking. The conversation explores how white women may unknowingly rely on assumed norms to protect comfort, control space, and avoid discomfort, even while seeing themselves as progressive or fair. Drawing connections to microaggressions, inherited social rules, and defensiveness, the episode challenges listeners to notice when clarity is replaced by entitlement and when listening is replaced by self-protection. Rather than focusing on overt harm, this discussion centers the quieter moments where bias shows up through tone, assumptions, and emotional reactions. The episode invites white women to reflect on how unspoken rules shape belonging and exclusion in shared spaces.
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