Moving on after divorce isn't just about you—it's about your kids and how they adapt to seeing their parents with new partners.
• Children need time to adjust to the major life change of divorce before meeting new partners
• Experts recommend waiting at least six months before introducing kids to a new romantic partner
• Introducing partners too soon can trigger anxiety, attachment issues, and co-parenting conflicts
• Courts don't prohibit dating but may question judgment if multiple partners are introduced quickly
• Parents should be honest but age-appropriate when discussing dating with their children
• Social media posts with new partners can inflame tensions and provide ammunition in court
• When children reject new partners, patience is key—don't force relationships
• Identify your emotions when jealous about an ex dating to manage reactions effectively
• Consider background checks on potential partners for safety and peace of mind
• Move forward romantically while prioritizing children's emotional needs and stability
Split Up takes you through every stage from considering divorce to dating again and even remarriage, providing guidance for each step of your journey.
