We call Tom "the King of the Kranium". This week, we find out why, a little, with strategies Tom uses in session.
The Session: Tom’s 3 Top Parenting Strategies
Psalm 127:3-4: Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth.
Have A New Kid By Friday
Reality Therapy
- Build a good relationship.
- – Examine the current behavior
Discuss it
- – Evaluate behavior-helpful or not?
- – Brainstorm alternatives.
- – Commit to new plan.
- – Evaluate results-no punish/excuses.
- – Accept logical & natural consequences.
- – Don't get discouraged.
Have A New Kid By Friday
- Let reality be the teacher. Learn to respond rather than react. Attitude, behavior and character are caught, catch your child doing it right
- Attempt to stop the behavior, either by ignoring it or by issuing a concept
- Introduce a new behavior that you prefer and reinforce it by celebrating your child
Celebration Of Success-YAY! I KNEW WE WOULD GET TO IT!
- How Celebrating Success is Different Than Positive Reinforcement
- Put Children In Position To Be Successful
- Discuss What Being Successful Would Feel Like
- Set Realistic Goals That Facilitate Success
- List Of Celebrations
- Eight Top Emotional Needs Are Met
Acceptance
Approval
Affirmation
Attention
Affection
Respect
Encouragement
Security
- Speak life. Give them a glimpse of their potential. “You are a man of God. ...
- Let love guide your discipline. If you feel angry or out of control when you discipline, stop. Seek help from godly counsel. ...
- Celebrate each child. Seek out what is special about your children.
Get to the Root of the Behavior
Be Consistent
Discipline, Don’t Punish
To reach Tom Russell, visit his website at https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com or email Tom at tom.hccm@gmail.com
