Are you dating… or interviewing?
In this episode of The Powder Room, we’re conducting a First Date Audit—a funny but honest breakdown of how women 40+ approach dating after divorce, loss, or years of frustration.
From who should plan the date to what actually matters during those first conversations, we’re shifting the focus from pressure to presence. We’ll unpack the difference between real red flags and simple nervous habits, settle the post-date text debate, and give you the top questions to ask (and avoid) on a first date.
If you’ve been dating without success—or you’re just getting back out there—this episode will help you release unrealistic expectations, show up authentically, and start treating dating for what it truly is: A chance to gather data, enjoy the experience and rediscover yourself.
Because every date is not a potential mate—and that’s the point.
I’ve included a First Date Audit Checklist for you—so you can stop overthinking, start observing, and actually enjoy the dating experience.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1t9V7ybIU2_Qh1MncoIATa2Ifm9UtVmO6/view?usp=sharing
