Are you the “nice” boss who hates conflict… but lies awake replaying the conversations you didn’t have? In this episode of The Business Fix, Chrissy and Josh unpack the Nice Leader Trap, when leaders avoid hard feedback to protect their own comfort, and accidentally torch trust, culture, and performance instead.
Using Chrissy’s own “nice leader” ulcer story as a jumping-off point, they dig into toxic niceness vs real kindness during Workplace Kindness Month, and why “I just want them to like me” quietly wrecks teams.
From there, Chrissy walks through the Four C’s of the Nice Leader Trap: Comfort, Confusion, Compromise, Collapse, and how leaders create chaos when they sugarcoat instead of saying the thing that needs to be said. They reframe radical directness as an act of kindness, not cruelty, especially for small and medium businesses where every role really matters.
Josh then tags in from the operations and marketing side, showing how “nice” sales promises and vague expectations turn into broken SLAs, angry clients, and teams stuck eating “crap sandwiches” because leaders wouldn’t set clear standards up front. (Yes, including the “fire hose myth” of marketing ROI.)
Together they get super practical with the “sweaty 10-minute conversation”: how to normalize tough feedback, protect the standard (not the story), and give direct, humane coaching without blowing up the relationship. Then they tackle kindness vs niceness, drawing the line between protecting your own comfort and protecting your people’s growth.
In the Quick Shot segment, they rapid-fire through:
If you’re a small/medium business owner, people manager, or HR/ops lead who’s tired of walking on eggshells but also doesn’t want to be
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