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Death stops us; conversation moves us. We sat with Irene Montefiore, a founding member of the Albany Death Cafe, to explore how a simple table, a pot of tea, and the courage to speak out loud can turn fear into clarity and isolation into connection. 

We walk through what a Death Cafe truly is: a confidential, not‑for‑profit space where ordinary people share stories, questions, and practical knowledge about dying, grief, funerals, and the choices that come before and after a last breath. 


If you’re curious about the logistics, we get practical: how to start your own Death Cafe, why venue privacy matters, using Dying to Talk cards, and how to promote without hype. 


By the end, you’ll see how naming death out loud expands life: fewer taboos, better planning, kinder support, and room for both tears and laughter. If you value honest conversation and want your final farewell to reflect who you really are, this one’s for you. Subscribe, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review to help more people find thoughtful, stigma‑free talk about death—and about living well until the end.

If you want more information about Albany Death Cafe, please go to their Facebook page and you can contact Irene through that.

Have questions about death, dying or the funeral industry? Email ask@ladyofdeath.com.au to have them answered in a future episode.