Survival mode doesn’t just exhaust you — it slowly becomes your identity.
In this episode of I Am Spice, we explore how survival mode forms, why so many people live in constant fight-or-flight without realizing it, and what happens when life finally slows down and you’re left wondering who you are without the chaos.
This is an honest conversation about nervous system survival, emotional over-functioning, hyper-independence, and the loneliness that often comes with healing and growth. We talk about how survival mode begins in childhood or adulthood, how it shapes relationships and identity, why calm can feel uncomfortable, and why healing often creates distance from people who only knew your survival version.
This episode is for anyone who:
– Feels guilty when resting
– Feels anxious when life is calm
– Equates productivity with self-worth
– Overfunctions for others
– Struggles to ask for help
– Feels lost now that survival is no longer required
Healing isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering who you were before survival became your personality.
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