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Episode 7: How Do You Treat OCSB? Inside the Most Debated Models in Sex Therapy

Season 1 — Pornography in Context

What actually helps when someone feels their porn use is compulsive, distressing, or out of alignment with their values? And why is treating “porn addiction” more complicated than most people think?

In this solo deep-dive episode of Complex Sex, Dr. Mallorie Sorce unpacks the most widely used — and most controversial — treatment models for Out of Control Sexual Behavior (OCSB) and problematic pornography use. Instead of moralizing or fear-based narratives, Mallorie brings research, nuance, and real clinical clarity to a topic that affects countless individuals and couples.

From CBT to 12-step programs to trauma-informed somatic work, she explores what the evidence actually says, where the gaps are, and why no single model fits every person or every relationship.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What OCSB is — and what it isn’t
• Why “porn addiction” isn’t an official diagnosis
• What the latest research reveals about compulsive sexual behavior
• Why CBT currently has the strongest evidence — and its major limitations
• How affect regulation, attachment injuries, and trauma shape porn use
• Why secrecy, shame, and moral distress mimic addiction patterns
• What mindfulness, somatic therapy, and neurobiology offer that CBT doesn’t
• How EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) helps couples rebuild trust and safety
• Why emotionally attuned treatment reduces compulsivity more effectively than shame
• How addiction models like 12-step and Carnes’ 30-task model help some clients — and harm others
• What the Sexual Health Model and TINSA contribute to values-driven, sex-positive healing
• Why individualized, flexible treatment plans matter far more than rigid abstinence goals

Perfect for listeners who:

• Feel overwhelmed, ashamed, or confused about their porn use
• Don’t resonate with “addiction” language
• Grew up with religious or moral messaging around sexuality
• Want a shame-free, scientifically grounded understanding of OCSB
• Are healing from betrayal, secrecy, or emotional disconnection
• Work in mental health and want updated, ethical treatment frameworks

Mallorie breaks down not just the behaviors, but the emotional stories beneath them — the trauma responses, attachment wounds, cultural scripts, and unmet needs that make porn a coping strategy for so many. She emphasizes that healing isn’t about achieving sexual “purity”; it’s about alignment, agency, emotional safety, and values-based sexual choices.

If you’ve ever wondered what actually works in treating porn-related distress — or why different people need radically different approaches — this episode brings clarity, depth, and compassion.

Up next: How to rebuild erotic confidence, connection, and trust after porn-related conflict in relationships.

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