Ever wondered how journalism can actually save lives? On this week’s The BabyGay™ Podcast, host PJ Brescia (they/them) sits down with Jay Valle, a GLAAD Media Award–winning journalist with NBC News, whose investigative reporting helped expose and stop a deadly pattern targeting gay men in New York City.
Recorded at the historic Black Cat in Silver Lake, this episode shows how storytelling can create real, life-saving change. Jay shares how following one overlooked case led to uncovering drugging, robbery, and murder rings preying on queer men—reporting that contributed to arrests, indictments, and new safety awareness across LGBTQ+ nightlife spaces.
Beyond the headlines, Jay opens up about his coming-out journey, chosen family, and what it means to feel truly seen and heard. If you’ve ever felt alone or unsure of your path, this conversation is for you.
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BabyGay™ Podcast, released every Thursday, is hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them) — a 2025 Out100 honoree — and celebrates queer stories, self-discovery, and the power of authenticity.
Produced by Tom Gault and PJ Brescia.
Special thanks to The Black Cat.
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