Some conversations don’t need polish. They don’t need editing. They simply need space—space for truth, for laughter, for pain, and for the kind of stories that shape who we are.
In this episode, Rachel sits down with her dear friend Mike Tomes for a raw, unedited conversation that feels more like a heart-to-heart over coffee than a podcast interview. Mike takes us on a journey from his conservative religious upbringing, through the fear and courage of coming out, to the profound love he found with his partner Sheldon. It’s a story of joy and heartbreak—of planning a dream wedding that radiated love, while carrying the quiet ache of family who chose not to attend.
But Mike’s story doesn’t end in loss. It unfolds into resilience, creativity, and a life fully claimed. From bold fashion statements at the Kentucky Derby to championing local businesses and curating unforgettable events, Mike embodies what it means to live unapologetically and authentically—even when it costs you something.
This is more than an interview. It’s a story about finding home within yourself, redefining family, and daring to live a life that is true, beautiful, and entirely your own.
Mike can be found on instagram: Mike_Tomes_Social
Presence Over Presents Part II
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