Retirement isn’t the finish line—it’s a full-blown transition. In this episode of Blah, Blah, Blah…Something Wellness, Tami Sharp sits down with Ken Koch, Mike Lawson, Vince Scotto, and Bill Fraass for a candid discussion about what really happens after a law enforcement career ends. From financial readiness and identity shifts to purpose, family dynamics, and rediscovering balance, this conversation brings clarity to a stage of life most officers aren’t prepared for.
💡 What You’ll Learn
-The real difference between financial planning and retirement planning
-How to find your next mission, purpose, and community when the badge comes off
-The emotional impact of leaving the uniform—how to process the loss of structure and camaraderie
-Navigating spousal communication and shifting household roles after retirement
-Re-creating fellowship through hobbies, fitness, and creative outlets like blacksmithing, paddle boarding, and pickleball
-Recognizing adrenal fatigue, hormone changes, and burnout recovery in post-career life
-How agencies can use mentorships, peer-support follow-ups, and retiree panels to improve transitions
👥 Panel Guests
Host: Tami Sharp — Law Enforcement Coaching
Ken Koch — Flagstaff PD (21 yrs), Taos PD Chief, Univ. of Colorado Boulder Chief
Mike Lawson — San Diego Sheriff’s Dept (24 yrs); Wellness Coordinator, Chula Vista PD
Vince Scotto — NYPD Supervisor (20 yrs); Coach & Writer
Bill Fraass — Bay Area Captain / Acting Chief (27 yrs); Public Safety Consultant
📚 Books, Resources & Podcasts Mentioned
Younger Next Year by Chris Crowley & Henry Lodge — on aging actively and staying sharp
Die With Zero by Bill Perkins — re-thinking money, time, and meaning
The Second Mountain by David Brooks — purpose and contribution beyond the first career
Blue Grit Radio Ep 220 — featuring Law Enforcement Coaching on wellness and transition
Blue Grit Radio Ep 253 — featuring Bill Fraass on What Actually Matters for Police Officers
The Squad Room Podcast — officer wellness and performance stories
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — confidential 24/7 support for first responders
Local “maker spaces” (Tinker Mill and others) for creative and social connection
Law Enforcement Coaching’s Retirement Readiness Coaching — guidance for purpose, planning & family transition Lawenforcementcoaching.com
🎧 Listen Now on: Spotify
• Apple Podcasts
• YouTube
