What Is A Cortisol Junkie?
Calm can feel threatening when your nervous system has learned that being “on” is the safest place to live. We sit down with licensed clinical social worker Anne Chester to unpack why cortisol and adrenaline become fuel for everyday life, how over functioning gets praised while burnout grows in the shadows, and what it takes to retrain a body that forgot how to rest. From holiday overstimulation to the quiet that follows, we trace the arc from survival mode to sustainable calm without shaming productivity or pathologizing grit.
We explore the science behind fight or flight hormones and the subtle ways stress hides in excellence, perfectionism, and being “the reliable one.” Anne breaks down ACE scores (adverse childhood experiences) as a framework for understanding chronic activation, clarifying that it’s not about ranking trauma but about how long your system stayed on alert. You’ll hear the inner questions that keep people revved—Who needs me? What am I missing?—and why vacations often fail when your body hasn’t learned that rest is safe. We dig into cravings, restless sleep, and the discomfort of silence, then map the small practices that build tolerance for calm.
Expect concrete, compassionate steps to rewire your baseline: name emotional fatigue, let grief belong without comparison, set boundaries you can keep, and practice short, non-performance moments that teach safety to your nervous system. Anne offers a grounded path from constant scanning to grounded presence, reminding us that you’re not broken—you adapted. With steady support, your body can learn a new way to be okay without the constant push.
If this conversation resonates, share it with someone who needs permission to slow down, and leave a review to help others find the show. Live in Texas and want to talk it through? Book a free 15-minute consultation at Anchester.com or call 817-939-7884.
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Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling
122 River Oaks Drive
Southlake, Texas 76092
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