Episode 8:
Bracing for the Holidays
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In this deeply emotional and timely episode of But Did You Die Though: Confessions of a Widow, Comedian Carmen Barton opens up about the unique weight the holiday season carries for those grieving. With a mix of honesty, humor, and heartfelt storytelling, she prepares her listeners for the emotional complexity of this time of year — sharing three powerful videos, one special photo, and wisdom from her own journey.
Carmen highlights the voices within the grief community, including the beautiful and insightful words of IG influencer Shanta Q (@heyshantaq), who describes grief in a way that resonates with widows, survivors, and anyone navigating loss.
She also brings attention to the tragic passing of a 24-year-old Dallas Cowboys player who died by suicide — a sobering reminder that while mental health is discussed often, the grief behind many struggles is overlooked. Carmen acknowledges the pain that comes when grief is misunderstood or minimized.
This week’s personal segment features treasured Christmas memories with her late husband, Anthony “Nick” Carthan, and their four children — and the heartbreak that holidays still bring now that she is navigating life alone. She reflects on how her coping has improved over the years, but also acknowledges the lingering ache of celebrating in a city where she has no family nearby.
The episode wraps with a Report Card Session featuring the “C” for Cooking, as Carmen introduces listeners to a true St. Louis classic — the St. Paul sandwich, a nostalgic delicacy that brings comfort, culture, and a taste of home.
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🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality known for her quick wit and authentic storytelling. A widow and mother of three, she fearlessly transforms life’s toughest moments into laughter, whether on stage, on screen, or behind the podcast mic.
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