What changes when we stop trying to fit in and start allowing ourselves to be who we really are? In this episode of The Choice Space Podcast, Dr Lee David talks with Liz Evans, The Untypical OT – occupational therapist, parent and advocate for neurodivergent families. They explore how to live authentically with dyslexia, the emotional impact of late diagnosis and the sense of relief that comes from finally understanding yourself.
They discuss how masking, perfectionism and shame can take hold when differences go unrecognised – and how self-acceptance, humour and simple strategies can restore balance. Liz shares her personal journey from struggle to strength, and the lessons she’s learned about parenting, belonging and building a life that works with, not against, the way her brain works.
A compassionate, grounded conversation for anyone learning to drop the mask and embrace difference – in themselves or someone they love.
What we cover
Key moments
00:00 Emotional rollercoaster of late diagnosis
02:40 What occupational therapy really means
06:33 Why joy and fun are essential occupations
10:12 Masking and shame
19:37 The Choice Pause – connection and acceptance
23:08 How honesty builds trust and connection
26:48 Anger and grief that come with understanding
32:27 Belonging, community and self-acceptance
38:29 Everyday tools to lighten the cognitive load
40:23 Two simple choices to carry forward
About the host
Dr Lee David is a GP, CBT therapist and author specialising in mental health and wellbeing. She is the founder of 10 Minute CBT and a podcast host sharing evidence-based tools for self-doubt, stress and everyday decision-making. Lee has written books on CBT, mindfulness and teen wellbeing, and speaks regularly at conferences and in the media. Away from work she enjoys running, hiking, singing in a choir and spending time outdoors with her family.
You can find Lee on Instagram, TikTok, and LinkedIn. You can find more about her books and wellbeing courses here.
About the guest
Liz is a dyslexic solo parent in a neurodiverse family and an occupational therapist. She helps neurodivergent parents protect against burnout through a neuroaffirming, trauma and
About the host
Dr Lee David is a GP, CBT therapist and author specialising in mental health and wellbeing. Lee has written many books on CBT, mindfulness and teen wellbeing, and speaks regularly at conferences and in the media. Away from work she enjoys running, hiking, singing in a choir and spending time outdoors with her family. You can find Lee through her website and on Instagram, TikTok (@dr.lee.david), Facebook and LinkedIn. You can find more about her books, wellbeing courses and therapy here: https://linktr.ee/dr.lee.david
