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A listener wrote in feeling completely torn apart by the weight of expectations. Family expectations, societal expectations, and the brutal “shoulds” we place on ourselves.
In this How Are You Really? episode of Big Stuff, Danielle unpacks what it costs us when we say yes to someone else’s vision… and no to our own. Whether your dream is travelling the world, changing careers, choosing not to have kids, leaving a relationship, studying later in life, or stepping out of the role everyone assigned you, this episode is about reclaiming your one big, bold, beautiful life.
In this episode, we cover:
If you’ve been feeling “confused,” this might be the truth:
You’re not confused about what you want, you’re questioning whether you’re allowed to want it.
People will be okay if you live your own life… but will you be okay if you don’t?
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:15 Listener's Dilemma: The Weight of Expectations
03:53 Unpacking Family and Societal Expectations
08:19 The Importance of Self-Permission
11:30 Living True to Yourself: Lessons from the Dying
15:06 Navigating Personal Choices and Expectations
22:26 The Role of Self-Worth and Success
30:26 Final Thoughts and Season Wrap-Up
Connect with Danielle:
See her website - https://daniellecolley.com.au/
But the Chocolate Bar Life book - https://www.thechocolatebarlife.com.au/buy-book
Find her on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/iamdaniellecolley/
Connect on Facebook - https://web.facebook.com/IAmDanielleColley/?_rdc=1&_rdr#
Watch on Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@iamdaniellecolley
Check out her substack - https://substack.com/@iamdaniellecolley?utm_source=user-menu
