Every year or so, I like to record a “where we are now” episode. Not the polished version. Not the edited version. Just the real one.
This episode is simply me sharing our current season—our family, our rhythms, our priorities, our struggles, and the practices that are genuinely helping us right now.
Marriage & Family Life
- Married to Nick for 23 years
- Practicing the daily question: “How can I help you?”
- Learning to treat what’s important to him as important to me
- Parenting teenagers with intentional boundaries around what I share publicly
Our Kids (Season Updates)
- Gus (19): College, football, growing independence
- Iverson (15): Deeply perceptive, emotionally intelligent, thoughtful
- Rosalyn (13): Animal lover, joyful, deeply affectionate
- Pixyn (10): Designer through and through—creating, sewing, imagining
What’s Working in My Five Systems:
Me System
- Strength training with purpose (muscle, longevity, resilience)
- Brain rewiring, emotional health, nervous system awareness
- Worship throughout the day, not just scheduled times
- Habit tracking (click here to download)
Food System
- One new recipe per week
- Returning to table conversations
- High/Low/Buffalo questions
- Creating space for connection through meals
Home System
- Sunday afternoon family chores
- Honey Huddle check-ins with Nick (click here to download)
- Walking room-by-room to evaluate priorities together
Family System
- Family values: kindness, humility, honesty
- Gravel road walks = deep conversations
- Family mantras becoming real-life language
Work System
- Still deeply in love with creating after 22 years
- Reduced staff after prayerful, difficult decisions
- Doing more shows than expected
- Clear calling toward one-on-one coaching (click here to book)
- Using AI for operational systems
- Weekly agenda sheet instead of a planner (click here to download)
- Investing in coaching myself
More than anything, this episode is about learning to ask:
- God, what is Your vision for my life, not mine -for You to bless?
And I want to invite you to pause and ask:
- Where are we right now, honestly?
- What are we being called to pursue?
- What are we being called to release?
