We’re landing on dating tonight. Healing from my first adult heartbreak has been fun (NOT), and I’ve sat with myself and reflected A LOT. How do you want to be loved? Have you ever sat and thought about that? What type of love do you want? I want a love where I can communicate, where we can converse and come to an understanding. What are your nonnegotiables? Have you thought about that?
Dating is complicated and complex, but finding yourself and focusing on loving yourself will allow you to be ready for love when it finds you again. We hope?
And in the meantime—in the messy, quiet, in-between—give yourself grace. Grace for the days you’re still figuring it out. Grace for the moments you miss what you had. Grace for the growth that doesn’t always feel good. You’re not behind. You’re becoming.
This Is Where I Landed with Shayla
I’m in my bold, soft, God‑led becoming era — and I hope this episode reminded you that you’re allowed to take up space too. Step into your power, step into your softness, and choose the version of you that feels aligned, peaceful, and undeniable.
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Remember, you are that guy, you are that girl, you are whomever you choose to be. Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.
