Description

In this raw, live episode of The Amoraea Podcast, I sit down in person with Louis Brantmeyer— relationship expert, bestselling author, and former pickup artist — to unpack what really drives attraction, love, and conscious relationships.

We dive deep into:

• The hidden value (and toxicity) of the pickup artist industry and how it shaped modern dating
• How attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure) impact who you attract and how you love
• Why most people should not be polyamorous — and what’s really going on emotionally when they are
• What love actually is, beyond chemistry and ego
• The levels of consciousness in dating, how to evolve your values, and how your typology shapes compatibility

Louis shares his personal journey from socially awkward and anxious to emotionally grounded and spiritually aligned — and how the nervous system, trauma healing, and self-love transform our ability to connect.

We also explore the philosophy behind Amoraea, the typology-based dating app designed to match people through systems like Human Design, Spiral Dynamics, Attachment Theory, and IFS — for those ready for true partnership, not swiping.

🎧 Whether you’ve explored pickup, polyamory, or spiritual dating, this episode will challenge what you think you know about love.

Attached - The book on attachment styles

🔗 Learn more at www.amoraea.com

 💬 Follow Louis Brantmeyer at https://louisbrantmeyer.com/ and check out his book:

A Creationship's Inception: Conscious Relating Through Polyamory, Entrepreneurship, & A Cult(ish)