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Why do the same people keep interrupting you, asking for "just one more thing," and walking right past the boundaries you swore you'd hold?

It might sting a little, but it's not their fault. People will treat you the way you've trained them to treat you, and every time a boundary slides, you teach them it was optional all along. The good news is that anything you've taught, you can reteach.

In this episode, Mandi shares why most boundaries crumble right when they start to feel awkward, the guilt that keeps leaders saying yes, and what a stubborn puppy and Supernanny can teach us about consistency.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why people test a new boundary, and how to hold steady when they do
• The hidden cost of trying not to inconvenience anyone
• What to say the next time someone asks, "Do you have a minute?"
• How to push through the awkward stage until the new way feels normal

Reflection questions:

1. Where in your life are people treating you in a way you don't love?
2. What have you been teaching them, without realizing it, that makes that okay?
3. Where did you start a new boundary and stop when it got uncomfortable?
4. Who are you inconveniencing yourself for right now?

Ready to stop letting it slide? Book a discovery call to see how coaching can help.

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