In this episode, the AI hosts step into Part III of J. Daniel Alejos’ Tending the Garden — the practical heart of the book — beginning with Chapter Nine: What It Means to Tend. After tracing the inevitability of formation and the moral weight of influence, Alejos turns to the lived response: faithful tending.
The hosts unpack how Alejos reframes moral and spiritual maturity away from control and performance, toward attentive stewardship. Tending, they explain, is the posture of someone who recognizes the weight of moral formation and chooses to carry it on purpose. It’s not about conquering or perfecting life — it’s about showing up faithfully in the ground you’ve been given: your family, your work, your neighborhood, your own inner life.
The discussion centers on three major postures Alejos calls essential for tending:
Finally, the hosts explore Alejos’ reminder that care flows from condition — that the health of the gardener shapes the garden. True tending begins not with strength or mastery, but with responsiveness — awareness, humility, and willingness to show up.
The episode closes with Alejos’ defining insight: “Faithfulness isn’t about fixing everything; it’s about caring for what’s been placed in your hands.” Next time, the series turns to the opposite side of that truth — Contamination, Neglect, and Damage — exploring what happens when the garden is left untended.
