In this grounding episode of the Female Church Leaders Podcast, Kadi Cole explores the often-missed connection between confidence and competency—and why lasting confidence is built through skill, practice, and experience, not self-talk alone. Kadi unpacks the “Missing 33%” of leadership development: the strategic and operational skills that quietly shape credibility, influence, and long-term impact in ministry. If you’ve ever felt unsure of yourself in leadership, this episode will remind you: you’re not behind—you’re building. You’ll walk away with clarity, encouragement, and a practical next step toward becoming the leader God has called you to be.
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 - Why most female leaders aren't waiting for confidence—they're waiting for competence
2:15 - The wrong order: Why confidence comes after skill, not before
5:30 - The "Missing 33%": Strategic and operational skills women aren't being taught
8:45 - A female pastor's breakthrough: When leadership conversations shift from feelings to actual work
12:00 - One action step: Identify a leadership skill to develop this week
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Tune in and get ready to lead with clarity, strength, and joy. Your calling matters, and we're here to support you every step of the way!
