Going on a date with a new girl or having a steamy one night stand after you got your heart smashed is a great feeling. While a rebound might be in your future, should you do it? We've heard the success stories but in this episode, we're talking about the DANGERS of getting involved with a new person while you're heartbroken. Find out why narcissists and toxic people in general target heartbroken individuals, and decide if jumping back into the dating pool is right for you.
In this episode, I break down the real dangers of rebounding too soon. When you're emotionally raw—dealing with rejection, low confidence, loneliness, or unresolved anger—you're vulnerable to idealizing the wrong person fast. Rebounds often mask heartbreak instead of healing it, leading to manipulation, emotional abuse, codependency, or repeating painful patterns that set back your recovery for months or years.
Us guys are especially prone to jumping in for quick relief (distraction, ego boost, physical intimacy), but research and real stories show rebounds rarely last and frequently turn toxic—especially when the new partner exploits your fragility. Waiting lets you rebuild self-worth, spot red flags early, and attract healthier connections when you're truly ready.
What you'll learn:
If you're tempted to swipe right or jump into something new to "feel better," hit pause and listen first. Waiting isn't weakness—it's the smartest move for a comeback that lasts.
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Hosted by Chris Ryan - Professional Life Coach | B.A. Psychology
Breakup and divorce recovery coaching for men
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