YOU MUST LISTEN IF YOU WANT TO
- Learn how to avoid neediness and scarcity
- Understand how to show premise without seeming needy
- Know how to deal with disrespect from women you date
SHOW NOTES
- 0:43 How to access Todd’s new program, Value MasterClass
- 1:35 How do you call women on their inconsistent behavior without seeming needy?
- 3:25 The consequences of being too nice and accommodating
- 5:20 Todd’s logistical dating strategies for maintaining value
- 8:50 How to deal with disrespect from women you date
- 11:40 The concept some guys have that they need to put women “in their place”
- 14:06 Create value organically, not through force, fear, and mandate
- 15:25 Does talking about going on dates early in an interaction show high-value due to courage or low-value due to neediness?
- 17:23 Subtle, flirty ways to tell a girl you want to take her on a date
- 19:10 A story from Todd’s early days of learning game that demonstrates what value and abundance are
- 22:20 Don’t get your value from scarcity
QUOTES
- “Scarcity and neediness are two of the biggest value-killers. You want to avoid those in virtually all situations.” (6:03)
- “On a first date, she doesn’t owe you shit and you don’t her shit.” (6:44)
- “It’s not that she’s not respecting your time and not respecting you as a person. It’s that she’s not respecting the random guy she barely knows’ time and the random guy she barely knows as a person.” (7:20)
- “The fact that she flaked one time is not an indication that she’s going to flake over and over and over again.” (12:23)
- “Maybe instead of ‘tell her,’ it’s ‘indicate to her.’ You want to indicate to her that it’s a possibility or indicate to her that it’s on the table yet maintain a little bit of mystery and be a little bit less obvious.” (16:45)
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