YOU MUST LISTEN IF YOU WANT TO
- Learn how to improve your verbal game
- Understand how to use your verbals to frame interactions with hired guns
- Know how best to communicate with your girlfriend or wife in difficult situations
SHOW NOTES
- 2:00 Having the “what are we?” conversation
- 4:40 What are the best ways to verbally communicate your true inner feelings about your partner?
- 7:05 How to express a desire for a change in your partner’s behavior without offending them or starting a fight
- 7:40 The concept of the “feedback sandwich”
- 13:30 Addressing habits and setting precedents with women
- 14:00 How to deal with being flaked on
- 20:20 How do I verbally game hired guns?
- 22:15 Quick note on immersions and live programs going forward
- 31:00 How to take advantage of the situation to have a smooth opener
- 33:45 Todd’s strip club results throughout his game career and how to establish frames with hired guns
- 39:10 A warning about gaming strippers
- 42:00 How to close hired guns
- 44:30 An early-college story from Todd's game career
- 47:55 How to change your game based on the venue and situation
QUOTES
- “I do believe in having an open discussion about the relationship. I do believe having an agreed-upon idea of what the rules are and what the contract of the relationship is is actually not only important but actually of primary importance - actually central to what a relationship is.” (3:30)
- “If you address things early enough before they’re a big deal you don’t have to address them later when they are a big deal.” (12:55)
- “Opening and closing are the two least favorable parts of game because they’re the two parts where you need to be mildly needy.” (27:45)
- “Get rid of this idea that you have a standard opener you must say in all situations, that’s not the case.” (31:23)
- "It doesn't matter so much if they've decided if they like you romantically, you just want them to have decided they like hanging out with you and that they would like to continue it." (40:22)
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