If you’ve ever wondered whether your child’s “quirks” are more than just preference, this conversation brings clarity and relief. Kim Lee, a child and adolescent psychotherapist, breaks down what obsessive compulsive disorder looks like in real life for kids and teens: intrusive thoughts that feel sticky, rituals that promise relief, and the exhausting loop that follows. We unpack the most common themes—contamination fears, harm obsessions, checking and reassurance seeking, symmetry and “just right” needs, magical thinking, and purely mental rituals—and show how they all connect to the same anxiety cycle.
We also get honest about the family side. Reassurance seems kind, but when it becomes repetitive it quietly feeds the OCD cycle. Kim offers practical language to reduce shame and build agency, like naming the “OCD voice” to separate the child from the problem. You’ll hear how to respond with calm curiosity, validate feelings without debating the obsession, and support tiny, doable steps that strengthen tolerance for uncertainty. For adolescents who hide symptoms, we share signs to watch for—withdrawal, irritability, or secrecy—and ways to open safer conversations.
Finally, we walk through help that works. Exposure and response prevention (ERP) is the gold standard, and a thorough assessment can tailor the plan to your child’s patterns. Psychotherapy adds depth by exploring the meaning beneath symptoms and teaching flexible ways to relate to thoughts and feelings. With the right support, kids learn that thoughts are not commands, anxiety can rise and fall, and rituals can be resisted. Many go on to live full, flexible, joyful lives. If this resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a review to help more families find practical, evidence-based guidance.
