Last week, we met Fred. Loud, aggressive, and downright obnoxious. He embarrassed us in a meeting, and we left feeling frustrated and angry. But was Fred really the problem? Or was our brain tricking us?
This Episode: How to Stop Negative Thought Patterns from Controlling You
✅ Recognize new cognitive distortions—like jumping to conclusions, blaming, and emotional reasoning.
✅ Learn why we expect others to change (and why that’s a losing strategy).
✅ Break free from black-and-white thinking that limits our effectiveness.
✅ Take control of your emotions instead of letting people like Fred dictate them.
Key Takeaways: How to Lead Your Brain (Instead of Letting It Lead You)
1️⃣ Be self-aware – Notice when negative emotions take over.
2️⃣ Uncover your automatic thoughts – What story is your brain telling you?
3️⃣ Find the facts – Challenge assumptions, opinions, and speculations.
4️⃣ Shift perspectives – Consider the other person’s motivations and your role in the situation.
5️⃣ Reframe your thoughts – If they’re irrational, challenge them. If they’re valid, process them without letting them control you.
💡 Your thoughts are powerful, but they don’t have to control you. This episode will help you recognize and rewrite unhelpful thinking patterns—so you can lead with confidence, clarity, and resilience.
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