This episode explores the frustration that arises when we expect something to be easy, only to find it difficult—whether in leadership, managing people, or life’s personal challenges. Often, we assume that if something is hard, we must be doing it wrong, or that we’re inadequate. But what if difficulty is not a problem to be fixed, but a natural and necessary part of growth?
Drawing from personal experiences—including a conversation with a restaurant owner who thrives on problem-solving and the emotional challenges of a first holiday season without a loved one—the episode challenges listeners to rethink their expectations. Instead of resisting hardship, what if we accepted that some experiences are meant to be tough?
In leadership, struggles such as handling difficult stakeholders, leading change, or managing conflict aren’t signs of failure; they are opportunities to prove resilience and capability. Similarly, in life, grief and sadness don’t always need to be “fixed”—sometimes, they simply need to be honored.
By shifting our mindset, we can embrace challenges not as personal shortcomings but as stepping stones to growth. Because sometimes, life is supposed to be hard—and that’s okay.
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