My guest today is Gemma Hartley.
Gemma is a freelance journalist and the author of Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward. She’s a mom of 3 kids, 5, 7 and 10
Takeaways from the show:
Gemma’s journey of being a writer
The article that started her career
Not wanting to ask your family to do something, just wanting them to know to do it
Teasing apart emotional labor
The pressure that lays on moms’ shoulders
What are shared standards
Acknowledge your standards exist for a reason
Holding resentment when your significant other feels like they should get praise for things you do on a daily basis
Being in conversation with our family in a way that supports everyone
Make it normal to talk about emotional labor
Vulnerability with your partner is scary but necessary
When going into emotional labor conversations, be clear on your intentions
The process of re-evaluating the life you share should include everyone being involved
Tools that help make everyone feel supported in emotional labor
Asking your kids to “help” you with household chores implies it is your job, which it isn’t
Recognize the subtle messaging you’re giving your kids
Where to find Gemma:
Book | Website | Facebook | Instagram | Women Aren’t Nags Article | Emotional Labor Article
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