What if the key to healing isn't more therapy—but creativity? Adam Roa's poem "You Are Who You've Been Looking For" reached over 250 million people. But before that poem existed, Adam spent 25 years emotionally shut down. He didn't remember his childhood sexual abuse until age 30. His journey reveals why creativity creates neurological safety for emotions that were once too overwhelming to feel. Creativity isn't about talent—it's about pattern disruption. When you turn pain into a poem or painting, you force your brain to view that experience differently.
This episode explains why safety must come before expression and how the creative process rewires neural pathways when talk alone can't reach what's stored in the body.
(01:00) What poetry has to do with your nervous system's capacity to heal
(03:45) Why Adam's viral poem reached 250 million people
(05:30) How childhood trauma stayed hidden for 25 years
(08:00) Why acting became Adam's first safe space to feel emotions
(12:00) The moment poetry became a survival mechanism after heartbreak
(17:00) How creativity rewires neural pathways associated with traumatic events
(22:00) Why one poem can play multiple roles in your healing journey
(27:00) What happens when you write for yourself but release for others
(32:00) Dr. Aimie shares her song "Letter to the Me" publicly for the first time
(47:00) Adam performs "You Are Who You've Been Looking For"
(54:00) The journey from viral success to learning what self-love actually means
