If I just focus on this a little longer. We need to feel good and content and ready before we act. And that is the trap really, when your brain is scared, when libido has been dormant, when intimacy feels awkward or vulnerable, when self image isn't fully healed, thoughts and feelings won't be perfect. They just won't be. So listen to me closely when I say this…your thoughts
So many women spend their time thinking about improving intimacy instead of actually living intimacy. We journal, analyze, consume self-help, and wait to feel "ready" — but meanwhile nothing changes. In this episode, Dr. Sonia explains why thoughts and feelings will never become perfect and comfortable before you act and why action — even tiny action — is what actually shifts sexual identity, desire, and confidence. If you've been stuck in your head about intimacy, this one is for you.
You'll learn why the brain tries to keep you waiting, how action becomes identity, how momentum awakens desire, and the #1 question to ask yourself this week to get unstuck. Plus, Dr. Sonia gives a simple real-world assignment to take one step toward deeper pleasure and connection — without pressure, perfection, or performance.
Enrollment Open: The next Own Your Sexuality Now! Weekend Intensive is happening January 31 & February 1, 2026. Enroll by Saturday, November 29th to receive a FREE 60-minute private consultation call with Dr. Sonia. www.soniawrightmd.com/oysn-intensive/
