Think before you speak. This is a GREAT rule of thumb for us ALL. Often times, we speak before we've truly considered the impact of what we are saying might have on others. But as believers, we must understand that our words have meaning. They can impact people...sometimes positively...other times...negatively. So before you open your mouth...think about what you're going to say. Ask the FATHER to give you the words to speak. Make sure that you are being an accurate representation of HIM.