There are certain biblical qualities to look for in the opposite gender. As Pastor Terry shares in his message, we must look for these biblical qualities over other more shallow qualities if we want the healthiest, most God-honoring marriage. Character, hard work, inner beauty, friendship, personality, and communication are just a few of the main qualities that come to light in the Song of Solomon. Many of these characteristics are not seen on the outside, but experienced by spending time with someone and observing them with others.