Cal looks at Coaching Competency #6-Asking Provocative Questions.
Some of the items and links discussed include:
The Competency Markers can be found at: https://coachfederation.org/pcc-markers
Asking questions helps/prompts our clients to:
- Explore attitudes, values or feelings.
- See a concept from another perspective
- Refine a statement or idea
- Get people to influence themselves
- Move people to action
- Predict possible outcomes
- Apply a principle or formula
- Illustrate a concept with an example
Types of NON-Powerful Questions
- Closed Questions
- Solution-Focused Questions
- "Why?" Questions
Problems with "Why?" Questions:
(Scott Ginsberg "Hello, My Name is Scott"http://hellomynameisscott.com/)
- They can be seen as criticism.
- They can be internalized as a personal attack.
- They can make people feel defensive.
- They can for
- They can be easily countered with "because."
- Tony Stolzfus adds: They take people into the past rather than focusing on ways to move ahead.
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