"Just be confident! You've got this!" Hearing this always made me roll my eyes, if I knew how to do that, I wouldn't feel nervous or insecure ever again!
When you're feeling far from confident, it seems like you're supposed to just 'will' yourself to be confident, which only leaves you feeling farther from it.
Today I'm talking about the real step-by-step formula for gaining confidence that might surprise you if you haven't heard it already. When I discovered this method, I immediately stopped trying to shove down my nerves and 'pretend' to be confident (while actually making the nerves stronger), and instead continued to take action until one day I realized that I had all the confidence I had always been looking for.
So, my friend - stop trying to will yourself to feel confident and instead take a listen and follow the steps and I assure you, you'll get there.
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