Buffy has a sister. She’s always had a sister. And apparently… we just never noticed. No big whoop.
In this episode of The Sunnydale Diaries, Sean and Melanie dive into Buffy the Vampire Slayer Season 5, Episode 2, “Real Me,” an episode all about sibling: annoying siblings, protective siblings, and the complicated, lifelong bond that somehow survives childhood chaos.
As Dawn steps into the spotlight (and immediately gets on Buffy's nerves), we unpack what it really means to be the younger sibling living in someone else’s shadow—and what it’s like to suddenly be expected to protect someone when you’re barely holding things together yourself. Along the way, Sean and Melanie share their own very real sibling stories: favoritism, slap fights, broken bones, resentment, reconciliation, and the strange way adulthood can heal what childhood broke.
We also talk vampire Harmony’s glow-up as a Big Bad (kind of), Giles’s suspiciously fancy new car, Dawn’s diary angst, and follow up to our "no big whoop" conversation from last episode.
From diary confessions to magic-shop murder, “Real Me” proves that sibling drama might be the most dangerous thing on the Hellmouth—and that love, irritation, and loyalty are often all tangled together.
Grab your journal, hide your milk, and join us as we ask: who does get to be the favorite, anyway?